I had a friend post a meme with this exact phrase on it and it hit me like a ton of bricks. I never knew him to be that way so I assumed he picked it up somewhere online. Nope. He thinks because his marriage is a success and has a ton of kids, everyone else’s experience should be the same. If it’s not, it’s the woman’s fault. This happened about a year ago and I’m still mad asf about it. Thank you for putting in the work to write this. It’s a great piece.