Men of Fear

Today’s boys are afraid of girls

In light of Dr. Christine Blasey Ford’s compelling testimony about “rapey” Brett Kavanaugh in the Senate, Trump echoed the sentiments of many men when he declared that he fears for young men in America.

Two things:

- Every 98 seconds someone is raped in the United States

- It is estimated that hundreds of thousands of rape kits sit untested in police department and crime lab storage facilities across the country

In other words, men and boys who rape don't have shit to worry about.

Not a damned thing.


That alone should alarm every man, woman, and child in America. Yet it doesn't.

Men are so indoctrinated into toxic masculinity that the mere thought about what's happening to Kavanaugh happening to them is met with fear and loathing towards women.

That alone should tell you quite a bit about the men who regurgitate alarmist rhetoric attempting to strike fear among other men across the country. Trying to unite with other scared little men.

I say, good. Let them ALL be scared.

Trust me, as a man, this message is not lost on me. But looking back through my life of not being a rapist douchebag, I can say with confidence that these concerns are not mine.

Let me say that again.

I don't worry about being accused because I never raped or sexually assaulted anyone. FULL STOP.

As a once touring musician, I made it a point to never put myself in any situation that could come back to haunt me. Not for my protection. But because I didn't employ the urge to stick my dick where it didn't belong.

I know countless of musicians who did things differently. But we are not all cut from the same cloth.

I saw what chauvinist men could do at a young age. I saw men who would practically force themselves onto women in an attempt to coerce them into having sex.

These were not role models. How anyone could see such behavior and think it was okay, or even model there own lives after it, disgusted me to no end.

It still does.

So when I see what I call rapist apologists out here talking badly about women and claiming they're afraid of what might happen to them, I see all those same disgusting men I've always seen and think to myself, "yep, you must one of them."

And if I'm thinking it, women are too.

At least self-respecting women are.

And that doesn't bode well for these toxic men. Certainly not any of the men seeking companionship.

Sorry fellas, but if you're out here talking shit about women and your concerns about being falsely accused, you better start enjoying a lonely fucking life.

Most women aren't interested in simpletons who can't think passed such basic thinking.

Let me put it this way.

If you can't take the time to listen to what millions of women are saying all over the country, at a time of so much empowerment, I can assure you that women aren't listening to you either and they surely never will.

Pay attention boys, because REAL MEN stand side by side with women in solidarity and in their defense against rapey little shits like you.

Go ahead, keep shouting from the rooftops about how girls scare you.

In the meantime, I'm having the time of my life hanging out with the ladies and watching you squirm because you most certainly deserve it.

If you're one of those men that are really worried about something you did in the past coming back to haunt you, I hope you fucking pay. Not Brock Turner pay. But REALLY fucking pay.

Because what you did, should NEVER go unpunished.

Got it?

I fucking hope so.

Now shut the fuck up and let the women have their say. Your words have done nothing but make us all wonder what it is that you're hiding.

Real talk.

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